So, my wife and I are separated

Joined: 29 Jan 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Alberta, Canada

Largely due to my depression (and how I act out during depressed "episodes") my wife and I are separated. Unfortunately we are living in the same house in separate bedrooms (for the kids).

This in itself is causing more depression for me since part of me wants out completely and part of me doesn't. She says she's done nothing wrong in this relationship and that I have to fix it...but I don't know what to do.

I feel vastly misunderstood by her and feel like she's just angry at me whenever I go through a down time. She says I just shouldn't feel the way I do and she's sick of hearing about it. Then she expects me to open up and share my feelings...uh, helloooo?

I don't know, I'm just venting right now. I doubt anyone has any truly novel ideas to repairing this situation.